I think these divisions is half the reason we have a "shidduch crisis"
My husband classifies as litvishe charedi, mildly anti-zionist (certainly anti-government) but works and watches movies...
I classify as conservadox, Zionist.
yet... the friend who set us up decided "Shomer Kashrut and Shabbat and they both juggle - it'll probably work." 4 years in, and so far, so good. It gives us what to fight over ;)
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